- August 16, 2017
- Funeral and Cremation FAQ's
- August 12, 2017
- Funeral Planning Guidance
Eulogy is pronounced like this: /Yule-ah-gee/
A eulogy is simply a speech about a loved one who has died.
This speech is usually given during a memorial or funeral ceremony. While it is often given by a close friend or relative of the deceased, it can also be given by a religious leader.
Don’t stress out over giving a eulogy.
Think of it as a simple conversation with the family and friends about the life of the person who has died. Remember, the funeral or memorial ceremony is usually only attended by people that somehow mattered to the deceased. They are eager to hear about the deceased and will appreciate anything you say.
Almost EVERYONE is afraid of speaking in public
The “audience” is NOT expecting you to give a flawless speech. If fact, if you “mess up” a little (or a lot), the audience tends to rally around you even more. They really do!
There is no “right way” to compose a eulogy.
Since most people have no idea what a eulogy is supposed to sound like, you can pretty much create it any way you want. Here are some things you may want to talk about:
- a brief “life history” of the person who has died
- important achievements and events in the deceased’s life
- details about family, friends, work, and hobbies
- favorite memories of the deceased
Most eulogies last between 5 and 15 minutes but there are no hard and fast rules here. You can also deliver “vignette” eulogies. This is where several different people take turns speaking about the deceased. For example, each of the children of a deceased parent could give a small speech about their favorite respective memory with the deceased.
Breaking a single eulogy into separate vignettes gives others a chance to participate in the services and takes the pressure off of just one speaker. Even if each person speaks for just a little while, it will seem like a longer, more robust speech because it takes time for each person to walk up to the podium and then return to their seat.
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- January 20, 2017
- Tips to Lower Funeral Costs
Many people don’t realize that prices can vary greatly between funeral homes. Over just the last three years many family-run funeral homes (and local cemeteries) have been taken-over by big global corporations. These big corporate funeral homes often keep the original owner’s family name on the door so they don't scare away their old customers. Unfortunately, these corporations often raise prices by 30% to 50%.
Don't just the pick the same old funeral home
This is why you should NOT automatically use the same funeral home you have used in the past UNTIL you check to see if they have SINCE become part of one of the big funeral corporations – as so many have!
- June 28, 2017
- Dealing with Loss
This article previously appeared on the Sparefoot.com Moving Blog
When someone you share a home with dies, your grieving process can become even more complicated if you’re dealing with a potential move.
Motivational speaker Carole Brody Fleet, author of “Happily Even After: A Guide to Getting Through (and Beyond) the Grief of Widowhood,” faced this decision after the death of her husband, Mike Fleet, in 2000. Mike had suffered from Lou Gehrig’s disease.
Not only was she living in an area that was in decline, but Fleet had emotional reasons for finding a new home.
“Living with all of the wonderful memories combined with the memory of him dying at home proved to be overwhelming,” she said.
If you’re thinking of making this type of move, consider these four pieces of advice for overcoming the logistical and emotional challenges.
In conjunction with National Moving Day, which in 2015 falls on May 26, SpareFoot is sharing various stories about people who’ve moved amid life-changing events. This story focuses on relocating after the death of a loved one.